How to get her back – getting back with your ex

How to get her back after an angry fight can be hard. Getting back with your ex is possible but it’s not always easy to do. The first thing to do is let her get over her anger to win your ex back to your arms. The big question is how do you do this and start working on getting back with your ex.

What was she angry about? Is she angry at you? Examine what happened that set the fight or argument off when she said she wanted to breakup with you. Going back over it should give you some good clues on what she wants from you and why she doesn’t want you anymore.

The first thing to do to get her back is after the angry moments, don’t call, her don’t send her begging text messages, do whine to her or cry and tell her you can’t live without her. All those things will just irritate your ex and she will harden her position and then you will have very little chance of winning her back.

Take at least a week or more before having any contact with her. Heh, you can do what I used to do and the day after the breakup I’d go on a weeks vacation. Of course that was before cell phones so there was no way to contact me. While you are away from her she may come back to her senses and want you to take her back. It does happen.

However, if she calls and you answer just be polite, be firm and find an acceptable excuse to get off the phone with her as soon as possible. Don’t promise her anything, don’t say anything you don’t have to and hang up as quickly as you can. This tells her you have already moved on and aren’t worrying about getting back with her. It will make her think about you that much more.

If she calls and leaves messages or texts you don’t reply and don’t listen to the messages as more than likely she’s still bitchy and mad and will upset you all over again and then you won’t be able to think clearly either.

You see, when someone gets totally angry like that it can take 24-48 hours to get all the the chemicals and hormones the brain dumps into the body during a angry breakup. That’s the best reason not to talk to her or even think about how to win her back for at least a week. When the chemicals and hormones are gone she will be more receptive. You just have to wait for the anger to truly be gone.

Getting back with your ex may be more trouble than it’s worth if you have frequent breakups. You should examine the relationship and what you want out of it before you do anything else. Of course I’m not a relationship expert. Lots of relationship experience tho and it seems I learned all of it the hard way. However, what worked to get my ex back, or ex’s back may not work for you. All women are different. That’s why, if you’re serious about getting her back you need to get some expert advice rather than my amateur experience.

There’s a book you might want to read that can help you greatly if you don’t know how to get her back. How to get your girl back written by a guy named Michael Webb.

He has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars/ Women are From Venus, NBC News, 700 Club, The Other Half, Iyanla, To Tell the Truth and FOX News. He has been featured in practically every major newspaper in the United States and is regularly mentioned in the nation’s top magazines like Men’s Health, Bridal Guide, Cosmopolitan, New Man, Women’s Day, Family Circle and dozens others.

I’d say that makes him more than qualified to help you win your ex back. After all, if he doesn’t know how to get her back you’re about out of luck. Check it out now here at get your girl back as it will help you win her back.